Every time Iliza (she dropped her last name, Shlesigner, on stage) comes to town, it seems like she’s had a major life change, and made another major professional leap. This year is no different, as the comedian recently got married and released her brand-new Netflix special, Elder Millennial. Last November, she also put out her first book, Girl Logic: The Genius of Absurdity, featuring a number of essays on her approach to friendship and relationships. Her material is a battle cry for anyone, male or female, who grew up in the late ’90s and early 2000s, but she also shares her own personal observations on getting older, maturing in relationships, and navigating settling down as a newly married person. Whether you’ve laughed until you cried at her specials like War Paint and Freezing Hot, or you remember her from her Last Comic Standing days, Iliza’s confidence, self-awareness, and dashes of millennial goofiness are still on full display.