We've all stumbled giggling drunk into sex shops with cheap coconut bras and cookie cutters shaped like penises. The Smitten Kitten isn't one of those stores. Here's a clean, mature boutique with high-end vibrators and fruity lube tubes organized in a rainbow bouquet of orgiastic possibility. Using toys isn't just a BDSM thing, and BDSM can be done ethically. Smitten Kitten's clerks will show you the wares with a gynecologist's savoir faire. For men and women who want more for their genitals than cheap plastics pumped full of BPA, try a sex-positive shop with national clout. If you're browsing gifts for a friend, remember that flowers wilt, but pretty little iPod-syncing vibes are forever (with a lifetime warranty).